How to Get Over a Guy Who Does not Care About You

Do you Love him, yet he doesn't care about u, he doesn't even act like you exist? Relax.. you're not the only one suffering from this kind of situation, and the truth is, it hurts, it depresses, and it makes one feel frustrated. This short write up will help you get over him quickly, and get a much better life.

1. Bear in mind that he is not one in a million, rather he is  just one out of a million. Get rid of the idea that if only you can get this man to commit to you, life will suddenly be a bed of roses for you.. Always bear in mind that rejection will happen throughout your life, and you cannot avoid it..  Be strong.

When someone rejects you, do not reject yourself. Life goes on.

2. Don't blame yourself. Focusing on the idea that if you change, you can win him over gives you a false sense of control. Many things in this life are completely out of our control, including how other people feel about us.

3. Don't take rejection personally. Know that it wasn't meant to be for a good reason. Rejection helps you learn what is right for you. Please do not harm yourself just because you've fallen out of 'love'. One-sided love is never love.

4. Ask yourself a some questions that can fuel your resolve to get rid of him:

Below are some questions you could ask yourself:

• Why should I waste my time on someone who doesn't care about me?

• Why should I spend my time on someone who isn't willing to spend his time on me?

• Why should I squander my emotions on someone who doesn't have emotions towards me?

• Why should I waste my tears on someone who will never care?

• Why should I be missing him, thinking about him, caring about him, and loving him when I gain nothing in return?

5. Stop stalking him on Social Media. Stalking him through social media will only prolong your agony. But, don't block him on Social Media. He will be able to see how happy you are and that you are strong enough to get through the pain he caused you.

6. If you have decided to forget about him and move on, stand on it. Don't delay. Don't make excuses for you not to move on. Any slight delay, could change your mind, and if that happens, you'd be falling back to square one. 

7. Avoid trying to make him feel bad. If you really feel that he owes you an apology, then ask for it. If he apologizes, accept it and move on. If he doesn't, let it go. He'll definitely apologize when he's ready. Trust me, they always realize their mistake in the long run.

8. Cut off all communication with him. 

9. Do something that can distract your mind from him, even if it's just for a little while. Go for a jog, clean your room, cook or bake something, just do anything!

10. Pretend like you don't care. If you start to pretend that you don't care and that it doesn't bother you, eventually, you really won't care and it really won't bother you. Live your life, invest in yourself. 

11. Don't be harsh towards him even after the rejection. Who knows, there may be another guy in the room who is interested in you. Don't blow that chance because of this guy again.

12. Find a guy who will make you smile, dry your tears, and who is always willing to spend his time. A guy who will shower you with love, concern, and affections, not this guy who has indirectly made you give him all and doesn't appreciate it. He doesn't deserve you at all!

13. Finally, If you've tried all of the above for months, maybe years, and you've tried everything else you can think of, and you're going on two or three years of still obsessing over a lost love, then you should talk with your doctor.

Please let us know what you think and share your tips in the comment section below.